Your life is valuable and finite. Each moment you spend in a
relationship which doesn’t fulfill
or completely recognize you, is
a moment you will not have again
to spend in one that does
-- with someone who
appreciates
and loves you
for what you are,
as well as for what you aren’t.
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It is an accepted fact that a
large percentage of a person’s success in life is directly attributable to
the quality of his or her loving relations. Therefore, it should stand to
reason that ANYTHING we can do to directly improve that quality makes a
great deal of sense.
Much of what I’ve said amounts to
simple common sense. Perhaps therein is the reason we often overlook it -
because it’s simple ... simple in a world where complexity is the accepted
order of the day.
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Opposites do attract, but if
the degree of difference is too much there exists much possibility for
problems to arise. Just remember that the root word of opposite is `oppose’
-- and from there make a determination of just how much `opposing’ you’re
prepared to accept in your life. Being that all of us are different from
each other means that no one rule, book, or strategy can apply unilaterally.
This is especially true where
emotions are concerned. Therefore what is written in this booklet, as well
as what you may read in other publications, must be taken only as a
guideline to be adapted to your particular life and circumstances.
Definitive statements made are for the purpose of underscoring a principle
of common sense -- how you apply it is up to you and your own good sense.
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In this day and age, the traditional values of faithfulness and
monogamy make more sense than ever -- your very life could be at stake
-- also the life of someone close to you. It makes no sense at all to
take a chance, but complete sense to choose the right partner, stay
with him or her, and enjoy the happiness, security, & safety of a
balanced, mutually rewarding life together. |
No diversion, distraction, or
‘change of pace’ could possibly be worth the serious ramifications
potentially involved, or the risk of losing a worthwhile partner.
Our world & society provide many
sources of uncertainty, confusion, and danger. Within the shell of a
flourishing relationship you’re shielded from much of it. Anyone can find
such a relationship provided they do so with the right criteria, and without
unreasonable or unrealistic expectations. In terms of overall success, the
peace of mind it will afford you is priceless.
My wish is that you find such a
relationship for yourself; the happiness you deserve as a human being; and
the contentment so many people unfortunately never find. Every one of us is
different, unique, & individual. As much as we may be similar, it’s the
differences between us which make us interesting and complimentary to each
other...
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The Five Top
Characteristics of an Ideal Partner
*based on a recent survey of over 1,500 people. |
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For the Guys |
For the Ladies |
| 1. Sense
of Humor 57% |
1. Warm
and Loving 66% |
| 2. Warm
and Loving 51% |
2. Sense
of Humor 58% |
| 3.
Intelligent 50% |
3. Honesty
43% |
| 4. Common
Interests 37% |
4.
Intelligence 37% |
| 5. Good
Looking or Good Company 33% |
5.
Dependability 35% |
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