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Giving Advice but not accepting it.
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Having difficulty asking for love and
support.
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Giving order.
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Trying to "get even" by putting others
down.
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Being judgmental or punishing.
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Withholding something others want or
need.
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Making and then breaking promises.
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Smothering or over-nurturing others.
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Patronizing or condescending treatment.
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Making decisions for the partner.
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Putting someone in a "no-win"
situation.
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Using bullying or bribing behaviors.
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Attacking someone when they are
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Trying to change someone, but being
unwilling to change oneself.
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most vulnerable.
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Showing "I don’t need you!" attitude.
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Grudge-holding or showing
self-righteous anger.
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Verbal or physical abuse.
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Being unable to admit mistakes.
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Being aggressive and calling it
assertiveness.
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Giving indirect, evasive answers to
questions.
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Consistently excusing or defending any
of the above behaviors.
