Promiscuity, Cheating and Staying Lonely

In this last portion of this journal, we will deal with the hard facts of promiscuity
and / or cheating.

Needing and wanting companionship is a by-product of feeling lonely. Being lonely also often causes a reduction of self esteem - the "Why doesn’t anyone want me" feeling. It is these feelings which so often lead to situations going beyond original intentions.

Loneliness & impatience contribute enormously to poor partner selection. Loneliness you once felt will be replaced with awareness that you’re simply waiting to meet someone who will properly appreciate you as an individual -- for what you are as well as what you aren’t.

 There are, of course, some healthy compromises which are needed from time to time when two people are together. But be aware that healthy compromise is a situation wherein both people are giving equal, or nearly equal leeway in order to meet in the middle for the sake of a common purpose or goal.

Anything else is a capitulation which will inevitably affect the balance between you, and we already know how important balance is.

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