It only follows that with those underpinnings in place, both will be far
more sensitive to their partner’s needs. Everyone’s body is different;
therefore different people will be physically stimulated in different ways.
Without trust, it’s most difficult to share those personal and individual
preferences and/or needs.
Love introduces gentleness and
consideration into the act of making love (now we are talking about sex).
Respect eliminates selfishness in the act, and allows a person to say "I
don’t feel like it" without incurring guilt or resentment. Making love is an
opportunity for you to share a special closeness which is uniquely and
exclusively yours. With a solid foundation to the relationship, you’ll both
feel comfortable trying new things with each other, and will enjoy more
spontaneity too!
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Each time you make love, you
will add to and reinforce the bond between you -- creating yet more of those
all important "gift wrapped memories" you may need someday. |
As we come to the conclusion of
this section we’ll capsulate the highlights of keeping it together.
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Avoid `ruts’ -- keep up the
effort.
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Use romance -- say "I love
you" without words; turning ordinary things into special memories.
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Avoid creating gender &
strict 50 - 50 divisions.
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Don’t take your partner for
granted
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Use your memory to remind
yourself of all which has, and can be special.
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Be mutually supportive in all
respects.
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Toss the "grocery list" and
comparisons
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Don’t try to change your
partner to fit your personal ideals.
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Communication must be an
ongoing element in your relationship.
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Do all you can to offset the
growth of stress.
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Do a role reversal
occasionally.
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Establish an `idea jar’.
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Make sex a benefit of your
relationship ...not a foundation.
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